Dating Advice For Men | Rebecca Dakin *
Author, Dating Coach & Intimacy Expert
According to a report in the Daily Mail, women who wear red in their online dating profile photos are likely to get more messages and dates than those wearing any other colour, a new book reveals.
So if women should wear red what colours should men wear for their profiles?
Well it depends on what trait of their personality they want to portray…
Why are women attracted to men that can dance?
Women see a man who can dance as confident, outgoing, fun, social and conscientious…
Guys ever thought of learning to dance? It’s a sure fire way to woo the women! I’ve written a piece for Top celebrity gossip Reveal magasine about the relationships on Dancing on Ice and Strictly Come Dancing. Blog post about ‘Why Women are Attracted to Men that can Dance’ coming soon.
For relationship advice personally from me http://www.datingadviceformen.co.uk/ask-rebecca/
Can I kiss you?
You don’t ask you just do, when the mutual chemistry and desire is there. And if you get rejected – it’s her loss!
This blog has been inspired by one of my girlfriends. She had been on a few dates with this guy and wasn’t sure if she fancied him but knew there was something there. He dropped a few hints about being invited in for coffee and eventually because he wasn’t sure how she felt he asked her if he could kiss her. This immediately killed the moment, and any spontaneity and made my friend feel uncomfortable. She mumbled a ‘no’ because she was so embarrassed, then he said, “Can I at least have a hug?” Awkward!
She admitted that if he had been assertive enough to just go for it, she would have kissed him.
To ask for permission means that you obviously don’t think it’s the right time.
Guys you might think you’re coming across as ‘caring about her feelings’ and not wanting to ‘make her feel uncomfortable’ but it’s the opposite it makes someone feel uncomfortable and you come across as though you are unsure of yourself, unconfident, weak, fearful (of rejection); none of which are attractive to women.
Why Too Many compliments don’t work…
After watching the last couple of series of Take Me Out I have been promising this post, because many guys fell into this trap. It’s long over due.
Guys when you give a woman too many compliments you rightly or wrongly come across as:
- needy
- having low self esteem
- desperate
- having a lack of confidence
- a wimp
- not genuine
- being in awe
