Why are women attracted to men that can dance? Women see a man who can dance as confident, outgoing, fun, social and conscientious… Read more »
Dating Advice – Fake It ‘Til You Make It
The other week I had an interview with Richard E Grant for a documentary for BBC Worldwide. Now you probably think that I’m uber confident, well I am in some situations and not in others – like many people. You might be able to speak to a boardroom full of people, but then not to [...] Read more »
How To Overcome Fear of Sexual Inexperience, Not Being Good Enough & Rejection – Dating Advice For Men
One of my recent blog posts I discussed how we can’t keep doing the same things and expect different results. So what’s holding YOU back? Is it confidence? If so what are YOU doing to build it? This could be lack of confidence due to lack of experience in the bedroom, lack of confidence due [...] Read more »
How to Approach The Single Girl on her own in a Bar
So there’s a girl sitting in a quiet bar on her own: The approach. Trust me if you go and plonk yourself down she will be cringing. I watched it happen the other day. This guy plonks himself opposite this attractive lady in a booth, sits directly opposite her ‘where are you from?’ She hadn’t [...] Read more »
Dating Advice for Men – Date Coaching Feedback
Today I wanted to share with you a lovely email I received from one of my coaching clients (with his consent of course Hi Rebecca, I just wanted to email you to say thank you for such an insightful first coaching session with you. You asked me to let you how I found you and [...] Read more »
Dating Advice and Tips for Men – Making Yourself Interesting part 2
You may look at some guys and think ‘it’s all right for him he’s good looking/ funny/successful’ etc…. You can’t force humour you either have it or you don’t. With your looks you might not be the best looking guy, but that doesn’t matter either as long as you keep yourself groomed well and dress [...] Read more »
Dating advice for men: Making yourself interesting part 1:
The Oxford dictionary defines being interesting as “arousing curiosity or interest; holding or catching the attention” Being interesting is critical to your success with women. First impressions count. What do you look like? What do people see when they look at you? Read more »
Dating tips for men – Be Assertive. Powerful Technique to Build confidence Approaching Women
I don’t know how many of you watch The Apprentice? I know you guys in the US may not be familiar with the show, but I want to share a powerful technique that someone used on there to collect women as potential customers for a ‘beauticians task’. In a nutshell, (for those that don’t know), [...] Read more »
Dating advice / tips for men: “My friend fancies you”
What you have to remember is that most of what we communicate doesn’t come out of our mouth. 97% is non-verbal communication, leaving a measly 7% for our patter. With this in mind how come we get so hung up on what to say? I always feel disappointed when I hear the “my friend fancies [...] Read more »
Rebecca Dakin, Dating advice for men: Here’s how not to do it….
1. Peacocking (wearing an outrageous prop eg; pink tie, bright green cowboy hat) works but you have to have the confidence to back it up. The hat wasn’t a strong peacocking prop because it was a dull colour and looked non descript if it was pink, then that would have been 2. His lack of [...] Read more »