So I’m out in Nottingham at the weekend in a crowded club, when a group of 3 young lads (early 20’s) approach me. One tried to pull the “I’ve got these two friends..” PUA (Pick Up Artist) routine with me. It was unnatural, he lacked confidence and it came across as uncomfortable for him and [...] Read more »
Rebecca Dakin Dating advice for Men: “She’s too good for me”
Guys do you recognize when you feel this way? Here’s what happens when you consciously or sub consciously think this about your girlfriend/wife/partner… 1) you feel angry at her for no reason 2) you say things to put her down and make her feel bad 3) you don’t compliment her or say anything nice [...] Read more »
“Using Language And Touch To Begin The Sexualization Process”
There’s a video here of me being a guinea pig for Mr Ross Jeffries http://www.seduction.com/ In my earlier post I discussed sleazy men, and on this short video clip Ross Jeffries shows how to sexualise with words and touch without being sleazy using basic NLP mirroring and matching techniques. I found this information on line [...] Read more »
Dating advice for men: Is what you want congruent with what you offer?
Too many guys focus on what they want when dating women, without thinking about what they offer and if the two compliment each other. For example I’ve had someone who is extremely negative telling me that on their list if requirements for a woman is that they are a ‘positive person’. Read more »
Dating Advice for Men – Be the leader
It’s a problem I hear my girlfriends moan about all the time. They don’t say to me “he’s not a leader”, but ultimately this is what they mean when they say… “he never suggests anything for us to do”, “he never makes any plans in advance to see me”. Women want excitement and adventure. Whilst [...] Read more »
Dating advice for men: Best piece of marketing advice: forget what YOU want, focus on what value you can GIVE to others – relevant to dating do you think?
Yes! I saw this tweeted the other day and it occurred to me that it is also relevant to dating. People are so focused on what they want that they forget what they have to offer, and what their value is as a human being. Think of women as your customers, ultimately they want to [...] Read more »
Rebecca Dakin, Dating advice for men: Here’s how not to do it….
1. Peacocking (wearing an outrageous prop eg; pink tie, bright green cowboy hat) works but you have to have the confidence to back it up. The hat wasn’t a strong peacocking prop because it was a dull colour and looked non descript if it was pink, then that would have been 2. His lack of [...] Read more »